Thanks both for replying. It’s good to know other people’s thoughts. Re his possessions, they’re here partly because his place isn’t big enough to store them and also because I feel like they might as well stay here until we sell the house. This is something for next year. Also, I guess I’m just not ready to deal with them. I haven’t really changed anything in the house which perhaps is strange. Partly I feel I don’t have time and that’s not a priority but maybe this is an excuse! I suppose I’m having trouble separating from him. I don’t want to get back together because I know the existing problems would still be there but it feels very hard to take the next step and disconnect in other areas. Thanks for your support.
