Having gone to my local grammar school in West Yorkshire, I graduated from Cambridge University with a history degree and somehow found my way onto a graduate scheme in financial services. 18 years later, I’m still with Lloyds Banking Group where I am the Organisation and Capabilities Director as part of the HR team. My job is all about how we equip Lloyds colleagues to have the skills and capabilities they need to do their roles and to progress their careers in whatever direction they want to take it.
I always say I used to have hobbies and interests before I had children. When I do have a free moment between work and family, I like nothing better than getting the cookbooks out and having a bash at a recipe that is always beyond my capabilities! I love to travel with my family, as well as making the most of living in central London with the theatres, galleries and concerts on my doorstep as well as sticking my head in a book for a few minutes whenever I can.
I also love nothing more than reading with my girls, Agata (4) and Ylva (8), seeing them open up to the magic of stories and starting what will hopefully be a lifelong love of reading is a real privilege. That sadly hasn’t yet translated into a shared love of homework but we will keep going! Cooking and then eating together whenever we can and talking about their day, their thoughts and their feelings are some of the most special times for me. Both of my girls love performing and creating things and I’m constantly amazed at their creativity and boundless energy.
As my daughters grow up, I want them to appreciate what they have but also be aware that families are not all the same and other children are being brought up in more challenging circumstances than their own.
I am fortunate enough to share life’s challenges with my wife Fiona but, were that not to be the case, I know that being able to draw on the support of a charity like Gingerbread would make a real difference.
I have the greatest of respect and admiration for anyone bringing up children by themselves. Being a parent is hard enough when doing it with someone else, but to do that on your own is a huge undertaking and at times must feel overwhelming. Connecting with other single parents is one of the most beneficial things Gingerbread does.
The stories told by single parent families about the difference Gingerbread has made to their lives are hugely compelling and the impact the charity has had over so many years is truly humbling. I am grateful of the opportunity to play my part in helping Gingerbread to thrive and continue to make a difference now and for many years to come.