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    Sylvia38
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    Oh no!

    I really feel for you that’s awful.

    I understand what your going through.If it’s any help when we told our Son it was the worst thing  I’ve ever done and it was awful you just feel useless and like your to blame.

    I have to say he was amazing and after the initial upset he’s adapted very well.Children are very resilient and hopefully that’s helped?

    Good Luck for Tomorrow x

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    Sylvia38
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    Hey Guys

    Thank you and I know your right it’s just so hard sometimes.

    I have had such a good run where I was still sad but it didn’t seem as bad and then this weekend has just been awful.

    Its just hard but your messages made me that bit better which is so good at the minute!

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    Sylvia38
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    Hi

    I had my Son when I was 17 to an absolute loser who played no part in his life.

    It broke my heart when I heard him say he didn’t have a Dad.

    Fast Forward to the present Day and he’s turned out amazing he has a good job he’s married and he is absolutely no worse off for not having had a Dad.

    Don’t best yourself up about it just go with it.

    You’ll work out what to say when you have too.Everything will work out x

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    Sylvia38
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    Hi Mark

    Thank you I will give them a ring.

    I was just wondering if anyone had done it really.

    You drive yourself mad sometimes 🙄

    #24205 Report

    Sylvia38
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    Hi Everyone

    I am from the North East although  further away from Newcastle.Just wanted to say Hi x

    #23969 Report

    Sylvia38
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    Happy Easter 🐣 Everyone

    We are all in the same boat it’s horrible unfair and I’m sure none of us pictured it happening

    Its like everything around yous changed and your stuck.

    I’m trying to see one positive thing a Day.

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    Sylvia38
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    That’s what I’m like I remember a time or a song and I feel a stabbing pain.

    Then I think the person now isn’t the person then if that makes sense.

    He just decided he didn’t want to be married to me anymore and as hard as it is he said he’s minds made up and it’s not changing.

    And to be honest I don’t think I would want him back not if someone who is supposed to love you can make you feel like this!

    I have Days where I worry and panic about everything and Days where I am happy so I’m just rolling with it x

    #23951 Report

    Sylvia38
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    It drives you crazy the not knowing but even when you get the answers they don’t make sense.

    I have to stop myself texting as your just so used to doing it or ringing to tell them random stuff.

    x

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    Sylvia38
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    Your post made me laugh!

    Thank You for that x

    #23879 Report

    Sylvia38
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    Hi Jean

    I totally understand how you feel.

    You just have to try and be brave.I had a bad Day yesterday but you have to try and look after yourself.I hope you have a better Day Today x

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    Sylvia38
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    Hi Land

    i wish I could fast forward.

    Thank You tho it does give you hope reading messages like yours

    #23612 Report

    Sylvia38
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    I think we are all in the same boat so to speak.We all will handle things differently and have different takes on things.

    I think we have to take small steps and take each Day as it comes.Its all new and scary and different but time stands still for none of us so we just have to get on as best we can.

    just think we’ve nearly got through another Day x

    #23476 Report

    Sylvia38
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    WelshDad

    Thats beautifully written and makes sense.

    I’m going to try and stay positive although it’s hard cause I’d like to believe what you said.

    Im lucky I have Fantastic  friends and I know I’m luckier than some x

    #23475 Report

    Sylvia38
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    Hi Kanger1 and Gamerdad

    Your totally right the sun brings all the couples out there everywhere like bees or wasps.Its really hard adjusting when you’ve been part of that for so long.You sound like your doing fab so keep up the good work!

    I feel for you gamerdad and all I can say is hang on in!Its got to get easier every Day x

    #23449 Report

    Sylvia38
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    Sergio01

    Thats terrible.Be strong and hang on in there.I’m the same as you and it terrifies me when I see people out and about happy .I can’t picture myself starting again either.Im definitely not the same person I was but I’m so pleased I joined here as a lot of people are in the same boat

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