[steve3334]

Hi, would suggest agree on a regular arrangement like dad sees child friday-sunday every other weekend, possibly other days if can manage? Seems like interference from grandmother. They have less rights than parents. If she wants to take it to court, court needs tovgive permission first

[steve3334]

hi, if she refuses to close CMS case, then you are stuck with it am afraid.

[steve3334]

hi,

I would suggest that it’s better to make arrangements without returning to court. if proposed arrangements benefit the child, then you can try it out.

[steve3334]

hi, silversurfer123

hope your well. how are things now?

[steve3334]

hi,

sorry to hear this. if theres a court order in place and ex is breaching it, he can consider applying for enforcement.  or if you just want to change arrangements, can apply to vary existing order, or apply for child arrangements order. feel free to message me for advice.

[steve3334]

hi, hope your well. do you have any child arrangements in place at the moment, how is that going?

[steve3334]

hi, how did hearing go?

[steve3334]

hi,

in mediation you could propose different arrangements. if you look online there are 50/50 parenting schedules like 2-2-3, 2 days on, 2 days off, and alternate weekends etc

[steve3334]

you may be able to claim child benefit, contact child benefit office.

[steve3334]

perhaps one day a child will be curious and want to see their birth certificate. and I would not want to be that parent that has to explain why their fathers name is not on it.

[steve3334]

hi, you could simply block his email address so you don’t receive any emails from him. if he is in UK and keeps doing this, you could report to police for harrassment.

[steve3334]

hi,

I can not give legal advice but only from my experience from the courts. it would frankly be pointless if you applied for a child arrangement order in this situation. courts can not make a parent spend time with their child if they don’t want to or are not available. they are good at setting out a fixed schedule, like every other weekend. but if your ex ignores it, he would not be held accountable.

[steve3334]

hi,

i have been having issues over holidays. only solution for me is to seek to have holidays shared 50/50 to avoid problems. if theres no real safeguarding concerns then i don’t make any allegations of abuse.  you mention he has broken the order, what has he done if you don’t mind sharing.

[steve3334]

hi, did CMS send you a payment plan with a fixed amount to pay each month? if so then I would suggest to stick to that. if you don’t then they can switch to enforcement mode, take money from your account or tell your employer to deduct straight from your wages.

[steve3334]

please take look at this:

https://www.gov.uk/parental-rights-responsibilities

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