Hi Kirst4 I’m sorry to hear that. The same thing happened to me with partner of 5 years he left me 3 months ago and it is still a very hard, I think it’s normal to feel very anxious as it’s a massive life change and huge shock especially as you did not know it was coming. I try and take one day at a time and not to think about all the what ifs as we cannot change them. I would try and focus on your new job and the positive change it will bring and the new people you will meet. Stay strong it really will hurt for a while but time will be the healer try and think that one day you really will be fine again even though it might not feel like it right now.
Gingey28 yes I have a supportive family but everyone is getting a bit lost with all the legal jargon back and forth and have no advice as to what I should do anymore. I think it’s hard for them to relate as they are not in the situation.
Beth05 thank you yes I think the only thing to do is take one day at a time as otherwise it all gets to much
Sillysally I also have to many bedrooms I have been advised I can make an application to the court where he has to make a transfer of property (a smaller one) until she is 18 but the court fees are extortionate and I feel I would also be trapped with him paying for it and not be able to break away from him and do everything for myself.
I’m sure you will find somewhere and so try to focus on knowing that you will be getting out of there soon and you will not be stuck somewhere you hate.
I am at myour wits end with worry, I do not know how long it will be here or where I am going to after this. I am awaiting a reply from his it’s been over a week and still no reply, my solicitor has asked him to agree to a fairer sum of money so we can set up a new life renting. My daughter starts primary school next September and you have to choose by January but I just don’t know where we will be living if I will still be stuck here so there is that additional streets of working for her future. The not knowing im finding is such a struggle it’s almost suffocating me
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