Hi lyndsey.i’m.still very hurt and comfused by her behaviour and i still love her and have feelings for her.she is just acting like she has done nothing wrong and planning her christmas while my life has been turned upside down.was meant to be moving in together but the last few weeks she has been so inconsistent and kept changing her mind.its caused me a lot of stress and worries.i miss her lots and miss her kids and got on well with them.only hours after we seperated 2 weeks ago she was back using online dating and she used a pic of the 2 0f us as a profile pic which hurt me a lot as it was a treasured memory of our last night away😭
Hi all.i’m also not very happy with cafcass handling of the situation regards my kids which resulted in my ex wife being awarded residence of my kids and getting my house.even though she never went to court for the kids in the 4 years we seperated🙁
I’m ok just like you lost in paperwork as applying to the courts for a child arrangement order and getting the divorce going at the same time.its 3 sets of the same application for the cao and its 26 pages each set😮
Honestly it took a while for the sick feeling to go away while i tried to come to terms with my wife’s adultery.which is why i kept busy to stop thinking about it.try it as it works and try to get out and about when possible rather than be at home😊
It will get better and keeping yourself busy helps.prioritise your bills and regards access mediation is a good start.feel free to pm if you need any advice as was in your position and it will get better😊
Cheating is the worst and i had all the abuse on fb but mutual freinds who knew me knew the truth and sure it was the same for you.i too had abuse from her parents but just ignored it.don’t let them get to you😊
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