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5 September 2021 at 12:40 pm #58757
It should be so great to enjoy a new life coming without the dad harassing all the times and giving stress. My boy is a year old and it hasn’t stopped yet. You need to be strong to take care of that new life, better without a guy that will make things harder. My ex would take drugs aswell I bet he still does it5 September 2021 at 12:35 pm #58756
Hey girls, never forget to be thankful to have family and friends and most of all to be stuck with a guy that will make you’re life harder… I wish my ex wouldn’t be on my case all the time. He has been mentally abusive and won’t realise the damage he’ve done, instead he would make everyone believe that I’m mentally unwell to justify his behaviour. I don’t have any family other than my ex’s which are being very awkward as they don’t believe me.
girls, hold on to the ones you can trust and love.5 September 2021 at 12:24 pm #58755
i don’t know about laws but this sounds wrong, my boy is only a year old and I’m already looking to get a two bedroom house so he can have his own space. It is maybe early for him when he’s so small but at least it will be a private space and his own world when he’ll want it or need it. I think is very selfish to give the bedroom to a new boyfriend rather than you’re own kid, And well an 11 year old definitely should have a private space as you said, she ain’t a baby anymore she’s closer to being a teen. It sounds unfair, I hope it’ll change for you’re little one.5 September 2021 at 12:10 pm #58754
Hey thanks Steve, I know I’ve done wrong, I just can’t lie, I couldn’t think of a fake name and stupidly put my real name. I’ve never spoke in Internet forums before and well this happened, someone even scammed me in this web.2 August 2021 at 2:17 pm #57134
Thank you for your replies,
I have unfortunately just suffered from a scam as from this exact post I’ve written yesterday.
This is very embarrassing but I must let everyone know before this happens again.
A woman replied with a very big message saying that she’s dying and she’ve chose me to be her next of kin to give money to charities.
I have stupidly given some of my personal details such as my email, full name, date of birth until I’ve researched on internet the same name and appeared to have happened to various people in the past, a year ago.
This is so heart broken, I thought a miracle has happened, I thought no one would be that much of a monster to pick someone from a single parent forum.
So, I guess I’m done with internet, I thought this could be good and the same day I got scammed, I really don’t know who is saying the truth or not.
Lisa.1 August 2021 at 3:09 pm #57111
Ah no worries ! So nice to talk to you, If you’d like we could contact through email or whatever is best, have a good one !1 August 2021 at 2:51 pm #57107
Ah no way ! You seem to be a very interesting person 🙂
My family used to be very hippie, I’ve been raised in music and art, in France as a start where I was born and well we’ve moved all my life in France, Spain, Gibraltar, now I moved to the UK, never had a true home, plus I have the strongest French accent I can’t hide haha. You mentioned about the communes, I can’t believe it, It’s a dream I’d love to complete.
I have been looking for a long time to go into one but people around me wouldn’t really approve it and turn me down. My dream is to create one, it doesn’t seem to be very common in the UK I bet there’s people out there that would love something like it.
So cool you grew up in Frome, looks like a very nice place i’ve looked into going there a lot !1 August 2021 at 2:30 pm #57105
Actually nop, never been there, I am very new to the UK, moved here just three years ago but with the virus it’s been even harder to meet anyone.
I thought to pin a place I’d like to live at, go to visit it and see how it is, and well if i like it there just move there !
I am looking through possibilities, I am on benefits right now and they pay for my rent which is rather expensive, I can talk about my situation of wanting to move out and they would pay me the benefits somewhere else in the UK until i find my way, if everything is settled properly, would it be ok with you ?
I have seen your house share post on a different website, I’ve read that you love nature, animals, yoga, and more cool stuff,
I’m an artist myself, I make money doing little jobs here and there, (painting windows, engraving glasses, woodwork, etc) and I love nature and anything that has to do with enjoying nature, life and tranquility. I’m a good gardener as well, grown some vegetables this year !1 August 2021 at 1:31 pm #57102
I’ve been feeling so lonely since I’m a single mum, my baby love is one year old, I don’t have friends here in Surrey and my only family is my partner’s family which I had complications with. I’m thinking to build a new life in a lovely place, thought oh around Bath is not too bad, and then seen you’re post !
It sounds nice to share a house with another single mum and for my baby love to see a child as well, Is you’re offer still avaible ? Contact me please !
Lisa1 August 2021 at 11:59 am #57099
I absolutely feel for you because i’ve been through something very similar. I had to call the police for my ex to leave otherwise it would have never happened. A mental abuser can find his way out or lie very easily, as yes, there’s no violence evolved. From what you written, I think you’ve been so brave to actually move your three kids to your parents house to get away from your partner, I can understand how hard it is for you, Mental abuse is so hard to prove, anyone that can do it is very intelligent and usually have always something to say to not look like a bad person. I knew there was something wrong, but it was hard to realise because he would make me think i’m loved and cared for, the next minute after a horrible argument, when it wasn’t exactly like that, so it becomes a vicious cycle that never ends, it will never end if you won’t act.
I felt bad and wasn’t sure what to do so i would speak to the only people i had, his family, that unfortunately would love him so much that they wouldn’t believe me. When things escalated (like my partner taking my baby love off my arms) the only help i could get was from the police, and well they’ve actually been very understanding, told my ex to get out, since then he hasn’t come back to live here, he lives with his family. They’ve solved my problem in no time and gave me contact to people to talk to about domestic abuse, to help me get on my feet. It can be very hard to take these steps, but well, I think is better than spending you’re life with someone that treats you unfairly. You are so lucky to have family, stick with them as much as you can. And don’t forget, you want the best for your kids, and the best for yourself to keep strong for your kids.
Loads of love, keep strong,