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Update:

He turned up unannounced and pushed his way into my house this morning. I used the HollieGuard app to get my friend to call the police. He kept saying he was taking our son out without me, I told him no he wasn’t repeatedly and he wouldn’t listen. He went round my house taking nappies, wipes, bottles, milk and clothes. Emptied my changing bag and put it all in there and tried to take my buggy while I was waiting for the police. Then tried to take our son from my arms but I didn’t let him go.

When the police arrived they told him he had to wait until the assessment was complete and told him to leave but said they had to put safeguarding in place and called the Social Services EDT to let them know what was happening. They’re coming round on Monday.

Does anyone know what I should expect? I’m scared they’ll blame me for not keeping him away.

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I did tell my health visitor and now she’s made a referral to social services 😔

I don’t have videos but he has admitted to shouting in his face in messages and blamed me because I put him in a bad mood just being around.

Is there any chance he will get overnights when he takes me to court?

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That’s what I was scared of. If something happened I’d never forgive myself. But if I stop contact does that not look bad on me?

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