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Can you not apply to the council and declare yourself as vunerable and semi homeless..They should then attribute a welfare officer to help you bid…

Basically, you need to get on the social housing/council lists.

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Youve likely done one of the best things, by appealing for advise on here.

Have you tried CAB or legal advise?

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Do you have extended family? ie mother.father!?…

Any outside support ?… i ask because, as you already know…This is going to be hard!

Since Aug 1st my life has crashed in beyond comprehension….though ,i’m still at the family home-until i can find a home(council)  ive gone through emotions i didnt know existed!

All i can say is…time! … although that can serve us in two ways of course…but some days are better than others and all the other cliches …but day 1 starts today(today being Monday 22nd)  Just know that people are here for you hopefully!…And you can at least know that you can call upon people here ….im more than happy,to at least be someone, on the end of a message board.That gives you an outlet and hopefully some hope..

There are plenty of people,im sure.That can give you advise…who are going through similar situations.

I hope well for you today….

Take your time….but simply message as and when and i’ll reply as soon as i can..

Regrettably people dont stick around in marriages any longer….just know youre not alone!

 

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Ana…thats all very terrible….ive been through some issues officially from aug 1st to the present….i havent a clue where the summer went!

 

Although matters have calmed down..or rather i am dealing with matters more productively…

 

If you genuinely need to just vent or general chat…by all means message me here of privately…either way !

 

regards

Mark

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Sorry!  who is matti nance? Is that the landlord?

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You could try freecycle….I recently ,kindly asked if anyone had a laptop for my Autistic son and low and behold….6 days later a young lad turned up to my door and gave me a lovely little lenevo laptop…bit banged about but it works a treat.

 

Now unless youre looking for new….then maybe family fund?…maybe give them a try….you just apply directly and they may well send you a voucher..

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All the best!…now onto uni and massive debt 😉

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Did you all meet up?

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Slick!…lol

 

 

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Go to court!

 

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Headphones work wonders!

 

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Hertfordshire…North or south?…..I know Letchworth .Hitchin etc….some nice places to walk there…

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I mean this in the nicest sense!  but maybe try and see it from his side….Im guessing youre the main parent?…..

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Hi

 

 

I was there(and still am really) last wednesday 1st Aug….The worst roller coaster ride of emotions and thoughts ive had in my life…..I wouldnt have thought i could have gone through them if told!..

 

Youve done on e of the best things,by coming on here”!….you wont feel(hopefully) so isolated and alone!..

 

 

More than willing to help if i can….or just an ear to listen!

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Hi there

Just checking if you’re ok? and need a chat?….

 

i’m personally not home until 7pm tonight…but i guess pretty much everyone else would be willing to help if needed.?

 

ive been going through the worst week of my life…1 week to this day(1st Aug-to today)…..its a struggle all round……but despair and lack of hope can be torturous…!   since ive found gingerbread….aka an outlet for our problems and source of help and giving help….its given me a life line!

 

private message me if you wish….or openly on here..

 

Mark

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