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    Gingy28 I will pm u

     

    #16078 Report

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    Only way to grt through shit is finding something u enjoy

    #16069 Report

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    i feel much better from loosing weight. its given me to concentrate on for myself. i do as much as i can with the kids to keep them as happy as i can.

    #16054 Report

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    Yeah last year but I’ve lost loads of weight since then lol

    #16028 Report

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    Nice I used to work in birkenhead. But since I gave up work and she has left I’m now a full time dad and spend about 12hrs a week in the gym so I’ve lost a lot of weight. Lost about 2stone in 6weeks. And dropped from a 42incb waiste to a 36inch waiste lol. It’s crazy how much u let urself go.

     

    #15994 Report

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    I can’t over workout I’m already doing, 2.5hrs a day in the gym Mon to Friday once I’ve dropped my kids off at school. I’m not into reading much. I have been flicking through Netflix but films aren’t the same if ur nit watching it with anyone.

     

    #15585 Report

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    hi dove,

     

    thanks for the advice buddy. ive got myself into a gym and im doing around 10-12hrs a week in the gym, the diet i put myself on dropped me from 19stone to 17stone. and im defo feeling better for it. I have a daily routine in place which seems to work well. My biggest killer is being lonely on a night time after 8pm once the kids go to sleep. i used to be up till 2-3am but  now i limit myself to 11pm and wake up at 0645each morning for a shower and to get dressed before i wake the kids up. i was big into online gaming but due to that being an issue in my marriage i can hardly stand being on a computer anymore. i dont read books or watch normal t.v. sometime i try to put a film on but most of the time it brings me memories. I just wish i had company from 8pm till i go to bed at 11 or something new i could set my mind on. At the moment im stuck in limbo waiting to find out just how much i will get a month from universal credit at the end of the month and then i can start to work out my my budget. the ex is giving me money towards the kds but she cant afford to do much. she is trying to save to get her own place go on a holiday in november pay for a passport etc. i dont need for money i can cope on what ive got as long as my kids have what they need i will get by.

    i think with me its all about time. some people call me a mug if she cae back i would take her back. i still love her and think her world is turned upside down but i cant live on the wat if. so i just stick to the day by day for the kids

     

    #15582 Report

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    if ur in the uk go to C.A.B and they will help u there.

     

    #15581 Report

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    i feel the pain since the split me and the ex spent a  week on holiday with the kids being civil to each other, other than that she has only had the kids for 3 nights. Ive managed to get myself a night out on thrusday due to her and her mum coming to stay at my house and have the kids. Friday morning we walk the kids to school and i go off to the gym whilst she takes them into school. we have no idea when she will next see the kids.

     

    #15580 Report

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    hi dove thanks buddy. im kinda lucky that we arent battling about it. we are trying to be as civil as possible. the only issue seems to be the new guy that she met through this  job. ive got so many people telling me to let her sink or swim. but my heart says 1 thing and my head is saying something elese

     

    #15576 Report

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    thanks.

    im trying to do everything i can. but its alot harder than i think. when she was depressed i was there for her. she visited her family etc. i took time off work to help her. guess its the joys of being 33 moving away from ur family and friends for the one u love. then when u give up work and let them go to work they find someone else and leave u.

     

    #15575 Report

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    hi there, ive been trying to focus on the girls as much as i can taking them for walks bringing in routines ive joined the gym, started a diet and feel good about myself, but once the kids go to bed on a night time from 8pm im so lonely and dont have a clue what to do with myself. i feel a burdon on family that i call them. sometimes i feel worse if me and the ex end the phone call to the kids on an arguement im a wreck, however if we end it on a good note im ok but still lonely. in the 6weeks so far ive decorated the house and given myself goals. I know my situation is very different but if u ever need someone to chat to there is plenty of people around to help u.

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