My boys father has only seen Josh my youngest with special needs once in 13 months and that was last August. And he messes with my oldest sons head. Picks him up Then doesnt bother. He’s only seen my oldest twice in a year. He didnt even get them an Xmas card.
So when your soon to be x wife is making your life hell remeber that you are an amazing father and she’s not worthy to have you ☺