Planning for Christmas

Date last updated: 19 November 2018

Planning for Christmas

During the holiday season, there can be extra pressures for many parents. Budgeting, making arrangements with your child’s other parent, and perhaps coping with being apart from your children over the holiday period can all be a challenge.

However you spend the holiday period, this time of year can bring lots of fun for you and your family.

Our community of single parents and our advice and information pages can help you plan the festive period and meet any challenges that come up.

For more ideas on having fun, establishing new traditions and saving money at Christmas, check out our single parents’ single parents’ ideas for a happy Christmas. If you are about to experience your first Christmas as a single parent, see our six tips from other single mums and dads to help you.

Managing money

  • Our factsheet ‘Making ends meet’ has lots of advice on budgeting, as well as ideas from other single parents on how to save money.
  • The Money Advice Service have a free online Christmas Money Planner that can help you budget for the festive season.
  • For a guide to managing finances and debt, read our factsheet on Dealing with debt.

Coping with money problems

If you run into serious problems with money at Christmas, help is available for food and children’s gifts.

It is worth contacting your local Salvation Army centre, as some of them can donate gifts to families in difficult circumstances at Christmas. Similarly many community groups, local newspapers and radio stations run Christmas toy appeals.

To find further information:

  • look in your local newspaper
  • listen for adverts on your local radio station
  • ask at local churches
  • contact your local Citizens Advice Bureau.

Your local area might have a foodbank which provides free food and support to local families. The service is provided to support the local community, so don’t be afraid to ask for a little extra help if you need it. You can contact the Trussell Trust to find your nearest foodbank.

For more information on foodbanks and local support, contact:

Read our information page on ‘Money in an emergency’ for advice about how to access local welfare funds and other emergency financial assistance.

Planning contact arrangements for your children

If your child has contact with their other parent, you might want to plan ahead if your child will spend time with them over Christmas. If your children are old enough, you could include them in the planning to help them feel more secure about how things will work out.

We have lots of extra advice and information that might help you organise arrangements over the Christmas period, including our frequently asked questions about contact arrangements and our frequently asked questions about holidays.

Times when your children are away

If you find it challenging when your children are away from you during the festive period, it may helpful to get in touch with other single parents in our online forum or on our Facebook page.

You may also wish to try websites such as www.netmums.com or dad.info, where you can chat to other parents and get advice and support.

Connecting with other single parents locally

Consider getting in touch with other single parents who will be happy to share the ups and downs of Christmas.

Gingerbread groups can be a great source of local support and many organise activities or social events for both you and your children. You can find your nearest group on our map and postcode finder.

Help Over Christmas

The Gingerbread helpline is closed from 4pm Friday 21st December to 10am Wednesday 2nd January. If you need advice or support there are many organisations that are open over the Christmas period. See our page on getting help over Christmas.

Help Over Christmas

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