So my daughters dad bought her a kitten for Christmas…..<br style=”box-sizing: border-box;” />Initially all very sweet.<br style=”box-sizing: border-box;” />However she goes every other weekend and once in the week, she has come home from Christmas at his and the new cat absolutely distraught that she has to leave it and was screaming that she doesn’t want me anymore, wants to go to his to be with her cat. That ‘is my fault’. How do I go about this?????<br style=”box-sizing: border-box;” />Feel like I’m always dealing with the repercussions when she comes home from his and that she doesn’t want me, when I do everything for and with her :((
I would just ignore her because obviously there is no routine at anyone’s house during Christmas at all so it’s all fun going out eating junk ( which affects their personality) and getting up late etc..
When she is back at school things and things are settled she will be a lot different so just ride with The storm and take no notice by upsetting yourself. When she’s away go a out pamper and spoil yourself . You didn’t say how old your daughter is so maybe she could be testing your patience!