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    have recently split from controlling manipulative mentally abusive realationship and I’m 22 wks pregnant and stressed 😩 I have two children from previous relationship who one he tried to get out of family home and blamed everything on and expected to clean up after him she is 17 and has been major support for me ❤️ And I have a 5yr old who was scared to be in room with him behaviour declined rapidly and I hate myself for not realising what was happening.

    since split he has been trying to wreck friendships relationship with my parents even trying to cause trouble with my neighbors every time I’ve allowed him to collect belongings he either makes excuses don’t show up or  has either taken things that don’t belong to him or destroyed property police have had to be involved as he also damaged my work car and chased me up road bumper to bumper  , he always rings me leaving abusive messages I’m stupid for leaving him I’m sick in head or he going to kill himself I can’t have him around me as I don’t trust him and can’t have anymore upset for my children but what can I do and what about our unborn child i can’t rest or sleep properly as I’m constantly on edge waiting for the next thing …..

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    Hi there Kitkat1982,

    Thanks for sharing your situation and welcome to our amazing community of single parents.

    This sounds very stressful and like you have a lot to think about. We want you to know that we hear you and you aren’t alone. It’s so important that you reach out for the help, support and advice you deserve. Just to let you know, we’ve dropped you an email with some information that may be useful and some contacts to talk through your options with you. Have a look when you get a spare moment.

    Please continue to reach out to others and we encourage other forum users to share their wisdom and stories.

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