Where to start

[DanielleM]

Hi,

im in a really unhealthy relationship with a man I share a 2.5 year old daughter with.  I need to get out of this situation but I don’t know where to start. It’s not physically abusive but it’s definitely mentally and emotionally abusive. He refuses to move out so it’s down to me but how? Where do I go? I can’t afford more than a room but I’m not going to live with my daughter in a house with strangers. I’m really stuck and don’t know where to start.

[Westernchampion]

Hi Danielle, is the house in your/his name? Is it private or council?

[DanielleM]

Hi, it’s a shared private lease through an agent. Both our names are on it

[Westernchampion]

Hopefully someone on here can advise you better than I, but I would consider speaking to the citizens advice and possibly your local councils housing department.

[Sherinam]

If you move out and your name is on contract and he stop paying you will be bad debted . Bailiffs will be involved so you need to get your name removed .

[Lj234]

There are refuges  for you to go into, I think you should go to the council and enquire or as previously recommended go to citizens advice. Move far away from him .

[DanielleM]

Thanks for the advice. A refuge would be ideal, I will talk to the council

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