So my ex has sent me a pic of our daughter having her hair cut . Fair enough it looks lovely but I feel so hurt that he didn’t run this by me first …. it’s not just this … it’s other things too … he ignored my calls when I wanted to speak with our daughter . It’s the first time he has had her for weeks . I have full residency order of our daughter and he sees her Saturday nights and Sundays … it’s has been a long process to get to this point .
My ex is an alcoholic and I have fought a lot to protect my daughter from his drinking . He has never hurt her …. but who knows what could have happened if I hadn’t stopped it at the time .
He has come along way since we separated which is great for my daughter … however now he is the best thing ever as he buys her toys all the time and takes her on day trips … then she is back with me and I have to take her to school … and do all the boring things so she cries all the time saying how much she misses him which I am finding really hard to cope with ,
I could do with some advice …. I can’t have a reasonable conversation with him because he was abusive I want little to do with him as possible ,