When is it appropriate for a child to be left alone with a new partner?

[jenmichParticipant]

Looking for some friendly advice on this topic! My ex has a new gf, and she will be moving in with him soon. They’ve been together about 3 months. Our son is 19 months old and stayed overnight at his dad’s last night. This morning I saw him in the supermarket without our son and I asked where he was….with his new gf. Is it ok? Am I worrying too much?

Plus…..she is moving into a single room with my ex, and the little one is also in the same room when he goes overnight.

[SOLOMUMMYParticipant]

It would naturally feel too soon for most parents.

However beyond trying to reason this with your ex there’s nothing you can do unless there’s a valid safeguarding risk as to why he shouldn’t be around her. That’s the legal perspective he’s the parent with the same responsibility as you and can do as he  sees fit ultimately.

[KathymumofoneParticipant]

Solo is right, it is up to your ex to decide, while your child is in his care.

in practice, probably the best thing to do is try to meet the gf, at pick up or drop off. Judge her for yourself, it will help you feel more comfortable.

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