In September I found out my husband of 13 years and partner of 18 has been having an affair and continues to see this lady whilst we live under the same roof- he refuses to move out….. We have a 16 year old daughter and I am trying to take the moral high ground for her sake- but it’s extremely difficult! STBX and new lady went away for the weekend- STBX didn’t have the balls to tell our daughter and still avoids saying where he is spending evenings- which is taking a toll on me and presumably our “little” girl
I’ve applied for a divorce, suggested he goes and speaks to a solicitor (he still hasn’t) the papers have arrived and he refuses to even look at them!! He won’t talk finances and I hate the waiting! Our family home is up for sale (but who wants to buy a house before Christmas?!)
I am completely devastated that I am in this situation and feeling like a fool!