I am 9 weeks pregnant and to be honest with You I don’t know what to do. The guy who I used to see, doesn’t want this baby. He thinks it’s a bad idea. I am here on my own and still renting a room. I would like to talk to anyone who had a similar situation. What should I do?? I know being a single mum is hard. I meant to go to abortion clinic but it’s against me. I am really scared to be on my own, especially during giving birth….
I was on my own when I was was 5 months pregnant . It was not easy because my parents had passed away and my siblings lived far away . I always wanted children but had 4 miscarriages before I had my daughter . My girl is going to be 5 soon and parenting is hard work. It’s even harder juggling bills , working and taking care of them with not much support .I have a nanny and although it’s expensive it has made my life easier.
I can’t give you advice on abortions because it took me 25 years to conceive. All I can tell you is that you can only make that decision! My sister and her husband came with me to the hospital and i was never scared. If you ask people for advice they may give you the wrong advice so all I can tell us yes its hard but it becomes easier once you go back to work and can afford a better life for you both . HMRC will help with childcare and will top up your money
Thank you soo much for answer. I know decision is mine but at this point I have mix feelings…. Like I said I don’t have any family members in London and still I am renting a room. I will try to sort out my accommodation asap….but still I am really scared of everything….
Thank you for making a post here on the forum. Its good to see other parents responding to you. I will be sending you a private message with some signposting options. Please continue to chat to others to keep receiving the support that’s out there.
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