I wondered this today, as my second husband left me yesterday. We’ve had lots of problems but I wasn’t expecting it right now. I left my first husband of 17 years, 5 years ago (there was toxic elements but to everyone else I left an extremely sorted and successful man) two and a half years later I met my present husband, we moved in after six months and married at a year even though we had obvious problems blending our families (five kids between us, none together) I didn’t listen and threw myself into it. Even my ex husband is probably dying to tell me I told you so! I hasn’t told my parents but as he put stuff on FB before properly telling me they noticed today. They came up with cuddles. I asked them about it and they said they just want me to be happy, they did a great job of reassuring me that life turns out this way sometimes and that my energy can be challenged into another direction. I’m very lucky, my sister is the same and I don’t care what anyone else thinks as they haven’t walked in my shoes therefore they do not have a clue.