What do you wish you had of done?

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    lou2020
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    My husband left on Sunday.  We have 4 kids.  He’s seen them everyday since.  Any advice on what you wished you’d done during those early days?

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    Jsmoove
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    I wish I had communicated more with my ex,but once u start having kids your focus and everything is about them and everything becomes a routine day in and day out,I felt she didn’t appreciate what I did as a father and partner but as I look back maybe I should have appreciated her more,also I regret the little arguments over nothing,wat we didn’t do is talk to each other in the end we were basically co parenting and living separate lives,if the relationship is worth saving Saving fight to save it

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    mamalou
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    It’s still quite early days for me too and I’m not sure I can help much as I have spent so much time feeling resentful I haven’t made the most of the time.  What I have done is focus on the kids and their wellbeing which has allowed me to keep putting one foot in front of the other and getting on with each day.  How do you feel about him leaving?  I often wonder if anything can be salvaged as Jsmoove said, I often wonder whether to focus on that and not give up.

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