Sorry to hear this, sounds like you’ve been dragged through the mill. With kids, it’s a case of make the most of the time you have with them, and do activities that they will enjoy that don’t cost – I’ve found that my Daughter especially just values my time and attention, we sat down today and just played Lego, watched a Disney Movie and walked the dog.
Financially, it’s a crappy situation; separation seems to cause problems financially for a lot of us on here reading through the forum, I know it doesn’t help but just having somewhere to go and talk to like minded people on here is a real comfort if nothing else.