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    Andy0923
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    So me and my girlfriend split up in November (I moved out) mutual agreement it wasn’t working.  Christmas came and our relationship rekindled until March when it all came crashing down again. I do feel it wouldn’t work between us but we have a daughter of 18months, we get on very well considering the break down in relationship. But I am struggling of the thought of another man coming into my daughters life, it is something I can’t seem to move past, it breaks my heart every time I think about our situation and the future. I know if I can’t move past this feeling it is going to damage our friendship we have got at the moment. Does these feelings ever really go away. My ex doesn’t seem to worry about these sorts of things so don’t think she understands my point. Anyone been through similar and offer any advice.

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    JulieM8tley
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    I don’t think that ever goes, you just have to hope your ex will make good choices and only bring in a positive person into their lives.

    maybe discuss your expectations on introducing new people into her live.

    ive learnt I can’t control what my ex does with my kids, but I can try to guide him as to what could hurt our kids amd ask him to protect them

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