My GF (38F) and I (43M) have been together for a little over a year. Our relationship could not be better and I would like to, one day, marry her if she’ll have me. The issue is figuring out what that looks like with our distance. So we don’t live too far away (1 hour). I don’t mind the trek at all, but I’ve often wondered what the logistic would be if we got married.
We both have kids that are young enough to be in school. (As an aside, our kids get along great, so that’s not an issue). Due to this, moving to one of the others town is not really an option. We could move halfway between each other. In fact, there’s a number of houses there which are large enough to accommodate what would be a huge household, but that would still place us each 30 minutes from our respective kids’ schools and our ex’s.
I wanted to see if anyone out there has had experiences with something like this and what they did about it. Thank you for your advice!