I have a baby with a married man. She is 10 weeks old. He has been put on a birth certificate and his wife knows and met the baby.
I was planning to visit my mother in Slovakia (diagnosed with cancer) to introduce the baby and spend time with family. I asked him for consent letter. He refused to permit me to travel due to coronavirus. He explained he is worried to let us go now during the pandemic.
Our daughter has met his family. However he hasn’t been consistent visiting her aomethies he disappear for three weeks and than appear and demand to see her with short notice. I refused him to see her the day he requested and I think he is doing this out of spite.
I never try to put any obstacles in his way I do want him to get to know her, but I fell he is not making any affort. I think his wife (childless) encourage him to bond.
I was even contemplating moving back to Slovakia however now I know there is a slim chance for me to do so.