Ive been separated from my husband for approx 6 months, marriage went down the pan long before. We have two young children 5 & 3 and I try with all my might to not display my frustrations in front of them. But my husband does not communicate, verbally, phone, email or text very willing. So I find myself ranting at him when he sees the kids. I am desperate to keep the peace for our children’s sake. He leaves all the planning about seeing the kids to me, waits until last minute to let me know if/what his plans are for the kids and doesn’t think to inform me if he’s late to come see them.
how have others managed in similar situations? Do I just accept? I’m really past the arguing stage and accept he cannot change who/how he is. But I want to make sure I’m not seen as the baddie in my children’s eyes. I know I can only change my behaviour.