My Ex Wifes partner has been in the past Verbally and emotion; abusive mainly towards the eldest ( 14 ).
Police asked him to leave twice most recently 2 months ago owing to causing alarm and distress towards them.
Children do not want to live with me as regardless they love there mum.
I applied for a C100 and C1A application but it was on ice owing to Covid19.
He is back as from 2 weeks ago and was fine with my children but yesterday started similar verbal abuse against my 14-year-old.
Social services are involved also a youth worker to help them both.
For 13 months I have done everything possible to try and resolve the issue and I did think the last 2 weeks was a turning point ( clearly not ).
It’s just “expected by my Ex as its what he is like speaks before thinking ” She in the past has asked him to leave and all his stuff was removed owing to what he said to my 2 children. Only 5 weeks ago and the police again attended.
I can only see a circle of the same and my 2 children becoming “victims” of a 39-year-old man’s emotional abuse.
My Solicitor quoted she can see bad times ahead and some times verbal abuse in the extreme ( as it is ) moves onto physical abuse.
I am a good Dad my children and partner see I’m doing the best and ultimately is down to ME Where they live but they simply do not want to leave mum.