Hi, first post on here.
I am newly single after he left me and 3 young children in lockdown in May. I’ve since made a support bubble with my parents and my dad has COPD (lung problems).
Recently kids started seeing ex, going with alternate weekends on a day out at present. He wants more but they hate it and don’t want to go. They become so unsettled when we talk about seeing him.
anyway he has joined tinder and dating, he also now does 5 football games a week as a ref- mixing with 22 people at least at a time. I’m worried about how many people he sees and him indirectly infecting my dad. My dad would absolutely not survive COVID.
the kids are so close to him and my mum.
so my question is if I can stop him seeing the kids for a while.
He already today asked to break the law by taking kids away to his sister (rule of 6!) he hasn’t even had them overnight yet! Well once nearly but oldest called me upset and he Just brought her home.
it’s so hard with COVID and he thinks it’s all a just a cold. He thinks I’m being over the top.
i want the kids at school, he also keeps asking to take them places where lots of people are like cinema! if they get sick they back to staying home.