i feel the pain since the split me and the ex spent a week on holiday with the kids being civil to each other, other than that she has only had the kids for 3 nights. Ive managed to get myself a night out on thrusday due to her and her mum coming to stay at my house and have the kids. Friday morning we walk the kids to school and i go off to the gym whilst she takes them into school. we have no idea when she will next see the kids.