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    I can’t help but still feel so guilty, I don’t know what to do. Should I allow him access after 5 years??

    I originally stopped him seeing my son as he was being investigated for raping someone , he was abusive to my daughter he seen biting my daughter when she was 4 a normal punishment, he was found guilty for beating up his 7 month pregnant ex, he has never had a solid relationship and treats women as objects speak when spoken too.

    My son is the most amazing polite well behaved boy and I worry that this man will make my hard work disappear and teach him that only money matters and women are objects.

    Am I in the wrong here? Should this be something I should fix?? Or keeping my children far from him is my best plan?

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    Has your ex Asked for access? If not, I’d keep well away from him.

    If he has asked for access, I’d consult the local police – explain the situation, and social services. Even if both checks come back clean, it can only ever be professionally supervised access for a man who bites a baby. You are definitely not being unreasonable.

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    Hi Kittee13

    Thanks for making your post here on the forum.  I will be sending you a private message.

    Kind regards, Justine

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    Hi Kites,

    I totally agree with Kathy, if at all possible keep that animal as far away as possible from both yourself and your kids.

    If Justine hasn’t already signposted you (although I suspect she has) a number worth calling is:

    National domestic violence helpline 0808 2000 247


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