I can’t help but still feel so guilty, I don’t know what to do. Should I allow him access after 5 years??
I originally stopped him seeing my son as he was being investigated for raping someone , he was abusive to my daughter he seen biting my daughter when she was 4 a normal punishment, he was found guilty for beating up his 7 month pregnant ex, he has never had a solid relationship and treats women as objects speak when spoken too.
My son is the most amazing polite well behaved boy and I worry that this man will make my hard work disappear and teach him that only money matters and women are objects.
Am I in the wrong here? Should this be something I should fix?? Or keeping my children far from him is my best plan?
Has your ex Asked for access? If not, I’d keep well away from him.
If he has asked for access, I’d consult the local police – explain the situation, and social services. Even if both checks come back clean, it can only ever be professionally supervised access for a man who bites a baby. You are definitely not being unreasonable.