Stopped my ex seeing my son

[Kittee13]

I can’t help but still feel so guilty, I don’t know what to do. Should I allow him access after 5 years??

I originally stopped him seeing my son as he was being investigated for raping someone , he was abusive to my daughter he seen biting my daughter when she was 4 a normal punishment, he was found guilty for beating up his 7 month pregnant ex, he has never had a solid relationship and treats women as objects speak when spoken too.

My son is the most amazing polite well behaved boy and I worry that this man will make my hard work disappear and teach him that only money matters and women are objects.

Am I in the wrong here? Should this be something I should fix?? Or keeping my children far from him is my best plan?

[Kathymumofone]

Has your ex Asked for access? If not, I’d keep well away from him.

If he has asked for access, I’d consult the local police – explain the situation, and social services. Even if both checks come back clean, it can only ever be professionally supervised access for a man who bites a baby. You are definitely not being unreasonable.

[GingerbreadJustine]

Hi Kittee13

Thanks for making your post here on the forum.  I will be sending you a private message.

Kind regards, Justine

[Ramblinjon]

Hi Kites,

I totally agree with Kathy, if at all possible keep that animal as far away as possible from both yourself and your kids.

If Justine hasn’t already signposted you (although I suspect she has) a number worth calling is:

National domestic violence helpline 0808 2000 247

Mark

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