My ex and I separated in July. We had agreed to share the children 50:50, however he has moved in with a girlfriend with 5 children.
At her house my 3 share different beds with her 5. They change beds and they have no privacy.
I do not have a problem with them staying with her but do take issue with the sleeping arrangements. My 3 keep come extremely tired, irritable and clingy. I’m really worried about how this is affecting them mentally. I have brought this up with my ex who has now blocked me from contacting him and will only speak to me through a solicitor.
If your children are having to share beds with others and aren’t getting enough sleep, I think you have to act.
Are your kids old enough to say what they would like? To see daddy & then come home to bed? Would you cope with having no nights off?
It sounds like your ex is sticking his head in the sand which isn’t helpful. If the visits are adversely affecting your children, I think you could keep them at home, at least until your ex will discuss the issue.