I am forced to live with my husband awaiting our final hearing as he want me to pay for half the mortgage even if I move out. The children and me 6&8 lived away from the family home as he refused to leave. I had to move back when he ran up our overdraft of 11k and deducted maintenance payments for mortgage payments. I also had to pay £3000 towards the mortgage not living there on top of that.
The boys lived with me and he only had them every other weekend. Even when we are in the house together he does not help. He does not have them over night as he drinks 2 bottles of wine a night. So he has them four days a month.
I try to stay away as much as possible and stay with my partner two nights a week with the boys on average. My ex now demands to know his address.
I can’t believe that I need to give him that as we are still in the same town. It is also laughable as he has never shown an interest before.