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    Cheltenhamman
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    Hello

    I was hoping for a little advice

    my daughter has attended a stage school since she was 4 on a Saturday between 10-1. I separated from her mum around 2 years ago and had my daughter one night and collecting her from stage school at 1pm on the Saturday. Since lockdown I have been having her for 2 nights as the stage school hasn’t been on.. it’s long been an issue for me as it leans I only see my daughter for 1.5 days and one night every 2 weeks but I’ve kicked the can down the road because of covid. Now the school is starting again on a Saturday and the issue has reappeared, does anyone have any advice in this situation where the ex is booking and re enrolling a child into an activity which obviously clashes with my access and not seeking any dialogue to get my thoughts or agreement  It’s a slightly strange situation but any assistance would be greatly appreciated

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    Lulublue
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    can you arrange with you ex to have extra contact, as well as the days you already have. You didn’t say how old she was but mentioned she’s been going since 4, so I’m assuming stage school means a lot to your daughter.

    there is nothing bad or wrong about a dad asking for extra contact, but asking your daughter to drop a class she loves so you can see her, wouldn’t be a good move.
    mid your ex doesn’t agree to extra contact, try the mediation route. You obviously want to spend time with her

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