Thank you for sharing that.
I’m in exactly the same situation and also asked him to contact mediation over a year ago but he hasn’t done it as he’s too busy being a “pastor” and a lecturer in University while sleeping with his student 🤦🏽♀️
So now he just appears by surprise (like Santa) ones a year with presents to mess up with the kids minds.
He appeared in my baby seaters door one evening before Xmas (after 8 months) while I was at work and they all run to the door and opened thinking it was me.. When I got back from work the kids were all confused and crying 😭
Are these “parents” aware of the damaged they are causing to their kids by disappearing from their life’s and turning up again when they feel like?