He told me he was ending our marriage 3 months ago but stayed in the same house until this weekend. We have 3 kids and the eldest is 12. Due to ex shift work, kids are due to stay with him on different days each week and it’s set out on calendar so we all know. I am absolutely devestated as don’t want marriage to end. Depression, irrationality etc all took its toll on him sand he can’t give me another chance.
Anyway, our 12 year old boy doesn’t want to go to his dad house. Should I make him. He told his dad via text (typical boy) that he didn’t want to go because mummy was so upset. I haven’t tried to make him stay and I am not forcing him to go either but I don’t know what is right or wrong to do. This whole situation is destroying me and I am scared to be alone.
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