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    Hi everyone

    Does anyone know of or have used a solicitors firm that have knowledge in narcissistic abuse please?

    I have recently separated from my abusive and violent husband and am now back to being a single parent (I have 2 older children from a previous relationship) but to 4 children now.

    Due to the financial abuse in our marriage I am financially insecure and just about managing to keep my head above water, so do not have disposable money to get a solicitor.

    I have made 2 court orders on my own, Prohibited Steps Order & Non-Molestation Order which have been granted. My ex isn’t paying for any of the house bills or debts so has a solicitor.

    I would really like to know if there are any firms in England that ‘gets me’ and have knowledge in narcissism and dealing with their abuse and family law.

    I know there are many family law solicitors out there, but I am hoping someone might know a firm who knows about the traits, lies and deceit of a narcissistic abuser.

    Thanks for taking the time to read this

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    Hi CherylD

    I’m Michelle one of the Moderators here.  You may find a suitable solicitor via the Family Law Panel:

    Family Law Panel – A free directory service for members of the public to access professional and independent family law information. Solicitors offer an initial free advice session. N.B. Professionals who can offer support with Domestic Violence are listed with a purple ribbon next to their name.

    You could also get in touch with Rights of Women:

    Rights of Women – Free, confidential legal advice by telephone for women on a wide variety of issues. Specialist areas include family law and domestic violence.

    Here’s a link to check whether you might qualify for legal aid:

    Civil Legal Advice Helpline – Find out whether you qualify for legal aid and get details of local family law solicitors that provide advice and representation funded by legal aid 0345 345 4 345

    And Law Works offer pro bono via volunteer solicitors:

    LawWorks – A charity working in England and Wales to connect volunteer lawyers with people in need of legal advice, who are not eligible for legal aid and cannot afford to pay and with the not-for-profit organisations that support them.

    I hope that those links are helpful

    Kind regards


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    am not sure if using a solicitor that has knowledge about narcissism will make much difference. has your ex applied to court for child arrangement order?

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    Thank you Michelle for the info I will take a look.

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    Hi Steve3334


    The reason I ask specifically for that type of professional is that there are certain traits that the trained eye will know about and will then better be able to pick it out from the crowd, if you get what I mean.

    Example: Contacting your family member

    This could be seen as a form of emotional abuse or trying to manipulate your support group


    Part of the ‘flying monkey’ tactic that if you have knowledge of, will know how damaging for the victim it can be and can be better described this to a judge/others to give the level of abuse someone is/has inflicted.

    I hope this makes a bit more sense? Yes, my ex has applied for child arrangement order.

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    I think it will be difficult to catch those people out. people with personality disorders can fool courts easily. also from my experience, court tend not to take these things seriously (especially if there’s no medical diagnosis) and will see it as parental conflict and not focusing on the children.

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    Hi Cheryl, 

    Good luck finding one. My ex was a narc too. I kept insisting to my solicitor about his narcissistic traits. Most solicitors unfortunately have no clue what is narcissism. Some will gaslight you and think that you’re diagnosing your ex. Even warn you of the negative impact it has on your side. Also unless the court directs for mental health assessment of your ex it will be difficult to proof that. Fingers crossed for you. X

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    I am following this thread with the same hopes as you.

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    Try Louise Halford at Evolve Family Law in Holmes Chapel. She is my solicitor and understands narcs as she divorced one too.

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