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    Beckys124
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    After a 15 year relationship, he walked out… I have suddenly found myself a little bit broken and don’t even know how to be….. I am here and I don’t know what made be here but this is what it is. I thought everything was ok, but clearly it was not. It’s super early days for me and I guess I will be ok but wow…. this feels slightly insane at times. I’m reaching out for support and understanding. Never did I think I would be going through this… I feel like I don’t even know anything anymore…

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    Gummibear123
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    Now,now,not Broken just a little chipped perhaps.Old timers at this game like myself might seem completely cracked but Broken sounds too sad😉 Sorry you find the need to be here though,it’s never for pleasant reasons and I’m sorry for every person who joins bc there’s so much pain and loneliness,but I hope you will find that the company on here will make it a little easier for you to bear.❤

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    Beckys124
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    Thank you for your support

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    plogermans
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    Hi,

    I know what you mean about feeling broken. I felt that at the end of my first marriage and still feel i’ve never ‘mended’ completely and it’s 40 years ago now ! But then the circumstances were were very severe. You do heal, at least partially, as time passes and you will too in time and seeing all the problems that parents have on this site makes you feel your own problems are not so bad after all, but no less important though. I hope you feel more settled before too long and when Spring arrives and the lockdown eventually lifts it will lift your spirits.

    Take care,

    David

     

     

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    Shepherdess
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    Hi Becky

    Very early days , take one day at a time and as much distraction as you can. Have you family for support? All very difficult in a pandemic but do not be afraid to ask for help or support and to chat away on here .Happy to chat privately if you’ve any to message . There are lots of things you can do early days to get you through, have you children ?

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    Shepherdess
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    Hi Becky

    Very early days , take one day at a time and as much distraction as you can. Have you family for support? All very difficult in a pandemic but do not be afraid to ask for help or support and to chat away on here .Happy to chat privately if you want  to message . There are lots of things you can do early days to get you through, have you children ?

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    Heartbreak04
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    Hi, I feel the same. My husband walked out in me and out two young children after 16 years together.
    I’m  broken, I don’t think I’ll ever get over this or stop feeling think this numb, empty despair. I’m reaching out for help but I just don’t think anything is working to help me.

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