I feel like I’ve been dropped in the middle of the ocean – no idea which way to turn or to make it through. Exhausted from trying to stay afloat. I feel like I’ve been treading water for weeks now.
The separation – I knew we weren’t right for each other probably – but when she confirmed it all – god it hit. Living alone for the first time ever and really struggling. I feel so alone, I feel guilt and regret at not making more effort. I had everything but now it’s gone.
She is definitely much further along this process then me – and I don’t feel anger to her for that, but it really hurts. I’ve never been an emotional guy but can’t make it two days without breaking down. I don’t have many friends anymore and no idea how to make it through. People say time heals – but if anything it seems to be getting worse.
I just need to know I’m not the only one I guess. And try and find some Hope here.
hi. It’s hard to start with, try and focus the energy you have into something u enjoy doing, go for walks to clear your head a bit. It does get easier with time but like anything things get harder before easier. I feel your pain, been in this situation more than once and it’s not nice.
Welcome to chat whenever you want. You certainly arnt the only one going through something like this, rest assured it’s not you.