Hi there, just a thought.
I moved just prior to having my first child and when he was little I went to many mother and baby/toddler groups in my area.
Many were run by ladies from our churches and were just social groups, non religious. Is there anything like that around for you? Also our library often has adverts for groups.
I know this may not be quite right for you but I’ve made some great friends along the way.
I really wish you all the best and please let us know how you get on.
Take care