this life is such a hard life, I would never believe that I’ll be a single mum, I hve always wanted to get married and then start having kids but instead it’s the other way round. I feel like I can’t forgive myself.my child’s father promised me marriage after giving birth but it was all lies I came to realise that he wanted to use my daughter to get papers in order for him to stay in the country and he had plans bringing his wife and family into this country using my daughter and cos she’s bearing his last name. Does anyone know how I can change my daughters last name to my last name instead what can I do to change her name.. he was always lieing to me saying he loves me, he’s going to marry me and I never saw all this coming through, I believed him he told me he wasn’t married which I believed. Now I have to let him go since last year I have not heard or seen him since then… I just hope that he’s going to regret everything one day, I went through so much cos of him, I had to declare myself homeless cos my sis won’t allow me to stay, I went to cs operation, I almost lost my life during birth, and after all this had happened, he had other plans. Am finding it so hard to move on…