Single Dad – Separation/PR Query (complex)

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    jonathsm87
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    <div id=”yMail_cursorElementTracker_1571344747629″ style=”overflow-wrap: break-word; color: #000000; font-family: sans-serif; font-size: medium;”>I am the father of 2 children, they live with me 100% of the time following separation from their biological Mother 6.5 years ago approx. They do not see her and have not done so for approx 3 years. I am the named Father on birth certificates and thus have PR.</div>
    <div id=”yMail_cursorElementTracker_1571344824684″ style=”overflow-wrap: break-word; color: #000000; font-family: sans-serif; font-size: medium;”></div>
    <div id=”yMail_cursorElementTracker_1571344835367″ style=”overflow-wrap: break-word; color: #000000; font-family: sans-serif; font-size: medium;”>Since approx 6 years ago I have been in a relationship with a new partner, with whom I and the children have lived since December 2015, they refer to her as Mummy and she has active involvement with them (especially my 6.5 year old) as if she was their Mother, she is in effect an unmarried Step Mother.</div>
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    <div id=”yMail_cursorElementTracker_1571344928994″ style=”overflow-wrap: break-word; color: #000000; font-family: sans-serif; font-size: medium;”>We are now separating and are in agreement that my 6.5 year old should spend weekends with her as they have an excellent bond which I do not want to be affected by our separation. Clearly whilst in her care, she would need to be able to make decisions in an emergency situation etc.</div>
    <div id=”yMail_cursorElementTracker_1571345025158″ style=”overflow-wrap: break-word; color: #000000; font-family: sans-serif; font-size: medium;”></div>
    <div id=”yMail_cursorElementTracker_1571345025298″ style=”overflow-wrap: break-word; color: #000000; font-family: sans-serif; font-size: medium;”>I have read lots of information online but this seems to be quite a unique situation. I think we need to look at a Child Arrangement Order, however there is no dispute so if we can avoid going to court, clearly that would be preferable for all parties.</div>
    <div id=”yMail_cursorElementTracker_1571345079953″ style=”overflow-wrap: break-word; color: #000000; font-family: sans-serif; font-size: medium;”></div>
    <div id=”yMail_cursorElementTracker_1571345080097″ style=”overflow-wrap: break-word; color: #000000; font-family: sans-serif; font-size: medium;”>Is there a way for her, as well as myself to apply for PR if I am in agreement with this? I think that may involve getting agreement from the boys biological Mother, which I am willing to attempt, however we are not in any contact as I mentioned previously so I am unsure what happens if she doesn’t respond (I only have a mobile phone number for her, no address/email).</div>
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    <div id=”yMail_cursorElementTracker_1571345149961″ style=”overflow-wrap: break-word; color: #000000; font-family: sans-serif; font-size: medium;”>Wondering if anyone else has been through a similar situation?</div>

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    jonathsm87
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    Sorry not sure what has happened with formatting there.

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    Kathymumofone
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    I’m not sure you need a child arrangement order. When my son is in the care of the school, I sign a document saying I authorise them to seek emergency medical care without consulting me.

    Would the same not work here?  You are placing your child in the care of someone you trust to act in their best interests, and authorising them to act for you in your absence.

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    Ramblinjon
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    Try giving these folk a ring:

    Child law advice service 0300 330 5480

    Hope this helps

    Mark

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