I have been bringing up my 4 yr old daughter from birth for which I had to leave my job in NHS..my expartner who hardly done anything let alone dealing with my little princess..has finally left and has now got her own place…whilst with us she kept herself to herself living with us but I still had to cater for her , in same house but living was stressfull but now gone. Just being on this UC is also stressfull …waiting for daughter to be accepted to a shchool locally…any one in similar situation