My children live with me most of the time but stay with their dad 4 nights out of 14.
Recently the children have been saying that their dad’s new partners mum has been staying overnight (I think she owns the house and her daughter and my ex rent from her).
Now they have said that their bunk bed has been moved in to the box room and the new partners mum has their room.
My question is, should I be informed of who lives in the house that my children stay in?
I have no problems with her at all, in fact, a responsible adult in the house can only be a good thing. I just feel that I should be informed of who lives with my children so I know how to respond to them and their questions/comments appropriately. I would definitely make my ex aware of anyone moving in with us here.