Where children are young they should adapt pretty quickly. What will be really good for them is that they see their mum and dad get on and are able to be amicable . They will have 2 homes to go to and will feel loved by both parents.
It’s not easy and though it’s true kids adapt they also get hurt and separating/ divorce /breaking up families etc as you already know is complicated and heartbreak for most parties involved.There’s no way to whitewash it,but things might well get better further on up the line somewhere and if you do manage to stay polite and amicable it doesn’t have to be as terrible as often is.Main thing is,you’re not alone in this and theres a bunch of people on here who really do know what you’re going through!! Sending love and strength your way💌
My husband & I have just recently decided to separate after 14 years together & we have 4 children, 10 year old & 3 under 4 years…. we have a house together which he is going to keep, just trying to sort out money & get the pratical things sorted out first then move on to the hard part letting the children know. Our eldest will be devastated, I’m worried about the routine of the smaller ones as they spend majority of their time when not at nursery with me. Husband wants to have them half & half but no idea how that works when he works full time? I work 3 days. It’s all quite amicable between us, we just don’t see a future together we’re so different & end up arguing over literally everything which is making us both so unhappy. We’re more like brother & sister than husband & wife
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