Separated wife – in some sort of new relationship.

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    Findingmyway4
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    Hi

    My wife and I separated in July, we have 2 children. We had grown a bit distant and intimacy not great. No reconcilation she wont have it.

    I have found out she has been in touch with someone since last year and is in some form of relationship, she has moved out of the family house though does come back and stays to see children, take them out.

    She has not admitted what is going on but I feel I have right to know rather than made to take a lot of the blame for relationship failure. Also what do we tell the children – they are old enough to know something is very wrong.

    I am taking legal advice on this and have had regular sessions with a Counsellor who tells me its time to set boundaries with her.

    I just wondered how other people dealt with this?

    My wife badly needs to find a rental house – she has looked but is not happy with whats available. I know I still have feelings for her but I feel I have been used as an emotional support by her when she does not get her on way.

    Thanks.

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    GingerbreadHelen
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    Hi @Finding myway4. I’ve moved your post up so others see it. Best wishes.

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