Me and my fiancé broke up 3 years ago now and im still having constant battles with her over our 2 children.
We have 2 boys aged 5 and 4 and we have an agreement that I have the boys 3 nights a week every week. I pay the required child maintenance every month.
The issue is that she is constantly changing the nights that I have the boys and giving me no say in this at all! Most weeks I have the children more then 3 nights a week and if I try tell the CSA this she just denies this. I only contact her regarding the boys but soon as I try challenge her she just blocks me and I am unable to get hold of her.
I want a set arrangement for access to the boys and i’m willing to have the children as much as possible as long as its a consistent arrangement for everyone, especially the children.
The Children never want to go home to her and I do have some concerns about how they are looked after as the often complain that she just stays in bed all day.