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    I’m  mom of 2.5 baby girl,fleed from domestic violence I have no friends no family in the country I’m losing it nothing is working properly, with housing,  and divorce it’s so hard to be free and safe with my baby , I’m getting food form food bank weekly. Which helped a lot .

    I’m so lost I dont know how to manage it and keep it up

    #42250 Report

    You are so brave, it takes so much strength and courage to have done what you ve done, give yourself a moment to reflect on that.

    Are you with a housing association? Would they be able to help with your property for you? If you don’t feel safe, have you thought of going into a women’s refugee (safe house) for a short while until things have settled down for you? You would have other mothers around you too in simular situation and most important you’d be able to feel safe.

    Really hope you get the support you need. Feel free to chat anytime. Thinking of you x


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    Thank you sunshine for your reply,

    I’m staying in woman’s refuge for 6 month now I’ve been doing everything by my self looking for solicitor that take legal aid, applied for council as homeless my advisor refused to register me with housing for 4 month, she not helping at all, till I got housing Solicitor from health visitor then I got registered now she is delaying my bidding.

    My baby girl need lot af attention want to go out and play , hard to keep her in the room all the time.

    I’m looking for nursery to register her for September they are telling as she is born in October she is allowed to register September 21, so I can’t go back to college as I have no where to keep her.

    I just dont know what to do.

    Thank you for your support sunshine




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    Do you think they might be delaying it, until they feel sure your safe?

    How are the other woman in the refuge are they able to interact with you a bit?

    You have done incredibly well, keep that strength that has got you here, it will get you to where you want to get too. X

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