Hi. My ex and I were together for 17 years and separated over two years ago. I was devastated and I never thought I’d get over it. But two years on I feel different, we get on ok but don’t really see a lot of each other. I have focused on myself, doing things to make me happy and the kids are happy too. It’s a really long process to get over that sort of change but you will. Give it a bit of time and things will get better