Hi after a bit of advice
Ii split from my ex 8 years ago, had to fight to get access through the courts, so now see kids every other weekend and every Wednesday, all gone good until lock-down came in, which i totally understand, i haven’t seen my kids since early march, i have spoken to kids on phone, but my ex is making this a little difficult with saying kids don’t want to speak but when i do they are full of life, (i have missed out on there birthday and today is my birthday the kids should be with me)
my ex is refusing to go back to normal arrangement at moment as i work full time i come in contact with people and she deem’s me a risk, i have suggested for time being, no over night yet but possible do sat 9-5 pm to ease getting back to normal, with she has refused
My big question is where do i stand in this, I want to do what right for the kids, but it cant go on forever that i don’t see them,
i do feel the ex is using lock-down as an reason to stop me seeing them (but cant prove that)