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    HK9437
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    I’ve just basically endured a big argument on my way back from the gym, with relatives on the topic of i dont allow my mum or them to see my son, the history of this basically is that, when he was born nobody visited, as me & his mum struggled nobody helped, as time moved on obviously nobody has been involved hence why me & his mum split.. now the normality as he’s my first child, is that its me him & his mum thats it, I work obviously have a life like im not in the wrong here am I? To me it just seems like its been left until it could be turned into a sympathy vote for a spotlight & now their tryna cash in on it 😅… just pissed me off as all like…

    #37051 Report

    HK9437
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    Just gotta add, im not the malicious type that publicly announces they aint seeing him ive just not gone out my way to take him to them.. like he’s 1 ffs why should he travel all the time 😅

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    Kathymumofone
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    Will your son benefit from having more family?  I’m not my sisters’ greatest fan but I know that my son benefits from knowing his cousins, and having a wider sense of family.

    Sometimes it’s better to let irritation pass you by.

     

    #37055 Report

    HK9437
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    Honestly couldnt tell you, he’s starting nursery this week & i have close knit relationships with friends with kids so he interacts alot, like i said ive never intended it to be like “he’s mine your not seeing him” its purely lack of interest in his existence that out of nowhere seems now to be a issue

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